- lewispamela7
Who’s the grown up 🐝
when you as the adult are introduced or just connects to a new person and you decide you want to pursue a relationship with this person then you bring out all the bells and whistles to achieve it
if you don’t go the whole nine yards and put the effort in because you have become slack or you are just a born dead shit then that other person will see thru this and move on
same goes for little children
little children are born to learn from an elder
that’s our duty
to nurture and inform them on the better parts of life such as knowledge and wisdom
they are little sponges and absorb absolutely everything
what they do with this knowledge as an adolescent and then a grown up is up to them but hopefully along the way if you’ve maintained a healthy wholesome relationship with them then you and they are forever blessed
those who expect the young people to ‘adhere’ to their way because they think their way is the right way are kidding themselves
another adult will just mutter words like you’re a loser what a dickhead and so forth and so on but a child because it’s not appropriate at their young age to use these words will clam up and you will lose whatever faith and trust they had in you [ I bet that they will let fly when no ones listening though 🙂]
so I totally understand when a person gives up on another or a child disassociates themselves from another
the most posionous of all elder / child relationships is in the family unit
don’t be thinking you will bully a rellie or your child into ‘liking’ you
you must not try to hold anything over their heads so they will ‘like’ you
a lot of family do
it’s not healthy and will go sour
all it will do is create a very unbalanced individual who crashes thru life when he or she should be cruising instead
the only solution to the problem is to remove yourself from such an environment if possible some of the more fortunate will with some help from others or another and will go forward and flourish
unfortunately for some it’s not that simple
such is life 🦋